Take time this evening to be with your spouse alone to talk. 

Ask the following questions:

·       How was your day?

·       What goal would you like to achieve this year?

·       What is your biggest challenge or problem you are having to deal with right now?

·       Come up with more questions if you so desire.

And, make sure you listen to your spouse. 

The goal of this exercise is to learn about each other. 

The goal is to spark a conversation about something other than work or kids or bills, etc. 

The goal is to reconnect with your spouse.